Saturday, September 29, 2012

Major Stressor


In September of 1999, the eastern part of North Carolina was devastated by flood waters from Hurricane Floyd. I was spared in the area that I live, but many families lost everything including my sister and her 3 children. Her home was under water and everything was destroyed. The sadness for my sister, nephews and niece being uprooted from their home was extremely stressful to our family. The feeling of loss and helplessness was indescribable. Everyone was affected; for days we had no electrical power, which made it difficult to use phone or hear news coverage.  There were a lot of emotional support from the family and communal support such as food, and clothing donations from local church groups, Salvation Army, DSS, and Red Cross.  After a week the National Guard permitted resident to return home and when we walked into the house, my sister became physically ill to see nothing that could be salvaged. She cried for days and became depressed about her children not having a home or their belongings. A lot of effort went into making sure that the children followed their routines as much as possible.  She eventually came to live with us for a year and she eventually got on her feet and is doing well.
The region I chose is Vietnam because 3 years ago a 4 year old Vietnamese little girl was in our classroom. She lives here with her parents and paternal grandmother. The grandmother shared many stories of her difficulty as a child without adequate food and basic necessities and how she came to America illegally to obtain a better life.  She often voiced concern for the children in Vietnam. She admitted the situation is slowly getting better for some children that she sees when she returned home every 7 years.
http://www.unicef.org/vietnam/children.html

 
 

1 comment:

  1. Audrey,

    Huracane Floyd must have been atrocious for you and your familly, especially your sister. A mother always has natural instincts that calls her to protect her children. I can't even imagine the emotional shock that strucked your sister watching that everything she had for her kids was gone. Surely she is a strong woman with a beautiful family.

    Elisa

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