Saturday, September 29, 2012

Major Stressor


In September of 1999, the eastern part of North Carolina was devastated by flood waters from Hurricane Floyd. I was spared in the area that I live, but many families lost everything including my sister and her 3 children. Her home was under water and everything was destroyed. The sadness for my sister, nephews and niece being uprooted from their home was extremely stressful to our family. The feeling of loss and helplessness was indescribable. Everyone was affected; for days we had no electrical power, which made it difficult to use phone or hear news coverage.  There were a lot of emotional support from the family and communal support such as food, and clothing donations from local church groups, Salvation Army, DSS, and Red Cross.  After a week the National Guard permitted resident to return home and when we walked into the house, my sister became physically ill to see nothing that could be salvaged. She cried for days and became depressed about her children not having a home or their belongings. A lot of effort went into making sure that the children followed their routines as much as possible.  She eventually came to live with us for a year and she eventually got on her feet and is doing well.
The region I chose is Vietnam because 3 years ago a 4 year old Vietnamese little girl was in our classroom. She lives here with her parents and paternal grandmother. The grandmother shared many stories of her difficulty as a child without adequate food and basic necessities and how she came to America illegally to obtain a better life.  She often voiced concern for the children in Vietnam. She admitted the situation is slowly getting better for some children that she sees when she returned home every 7 years.
http://www.unicef.org/vietnam/children.html

 
 

Friday, September 14, 2012

Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS)


Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) or “crib death” is a frightening heartbreaking loss to families and is the leading the cause of death among infants 1 month to 1 year old. SIDS has touched my life in a personal way. Twenty-nine years ago, my friend Barbara’s son Brandon died at 2 months old of (SIDS).  Sleeping on his stomach was said to be the main reason for his death.  After feeding him at 2 am, he went back to sleep and she placed him in the crib on his stomach as she had always done with him and her 2 other children.  She woke up at 6 am and checked on him as she did every morning and found her baby cold. Shock and sadness is an understatement of what her family and friends experienced. I’m glad that research has discovered techniques and provided information to the public about how to reduce the risk of SIDS.


Global SIDS Statistics


 

Saturday, September 8, 2012

Birth Experience


Witnessing the birth of my 3 grandchildren allowed a very different experience. Their birthing room was arranged in a cozy homelike setting. There was a sofa and rocking chair in the room and nice paintings on the wall. Everything happened in the same room.  After the births, the babies stayed with their mothers in the room. It was an overwhelming to see my daughters and babies having the opportunity to bond and form those needed attachment immediately.

 Each time was a reminder of my birthing experiences during the 70’s of being moved to a cold labor and delivery room to give birth.  I held them shortly and they were shipped off to a nursery and care for by the nurse until feedings.  After experiencing my grandchildren’s births, I felt robbed of precious bonding time with my babies.  Over time studies conducted showed the importance of forming early nurturing relationships and child birthing procedures changed.

I believe mothers who spend time with newborns after birth assist in fostering healthy development.  It is sad that children who are born prematurely for whatever reasons are deprived of early nurturing intimate relationships with their mothers.